I have never been good at saying NO. I am a people pleaser, I want everyone to be happy and will do whatever I can to help that process. Sometimes you can give everything and not save any of that kindness or care for your own damn self. I have deserted myself, left my own […]

me and tiff kids

How Can a Woman Feel Safe When Men are like Brock Turner? Brock Turner you are what is wrong with this world… I remember his name but not his victim. Every woman is hurt when a man gets off easy. Just like every black person is hurt when a cop gets off clean after an […]

work out 1

I have recently lost some weight, I do not know how much because I have vowed to not step on a scale ever again. Everyone has a comment. Other things I vowed to never do again are eat meat, shave my legs or pits, or wear a bra daily. None of these things are for […]

riding bikes at night

The main problem with my life is that I am afraid of falling. I used to jump off of swings and fly through the air. Now I ride a tricycle so I don’t fall off of it. I only regret the things I haven’t climbed. I know I have missed out on beautiful views because […]